Pregnant and he's wanting to leave

[MrBond]

DIM,

I hope you are coping with your pregnancy well. That's your first concern.

If your H isn't there or concerned enough to be there for you for the birth of his own child, watch out. A real man would do whatever it took to be with his W in this time of her need and not let "price" be an issue.

The fact is that he's used excuse after excuse to you and you don't need to take it any longer. If you know he hasn't made any travel arrangements, then he sees you as a burden.

If he tries calling you, don't answer the phone. It is not your job to keep him informed of everything that's going on with the pregnancy when he doesn't even make an effort to be there with you. He has to WORK for the privlige to be married to you. Not the other way around.

Is there someone else there who is available to help you through the birth?