Hi Beatrice,

I actually have a Facebook in my real name. I think for DB and friending to MWD they all use an assumed name that is similar to our names on this board. They all probably have two accounts.

I would not want anyone to know about my DB facebook account. I would not want H or son or family to figure it out. Maybe you could set up a secret one just for this purpose too(?) That is what I am working on doing.

I am feeling that DB is not for me anymore, I do want to maintain the friendships I have formed because of this though.

I feel like I will most likely lurk here a while longer and then simply fade away....DB does not feel right anymore, I have nothing left in my marriage to hope for.

I am working on a name that will work aside from my real account.

Just a thought for you, you have also made many friends and have given so much valuable support in your posts. You would be a welcomed member of the group for sure.

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11