I think you are making great progress. You've obviously have a handle on things and it looks to me as if your R with H has changed significantly. He's around, he's participating - all good stuff. I like that you have a plan for your future and that it will be up to your H to decide if he fits into it or not.
Keep at it.
OMW
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson
M: 45 WAW: 36 T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9 ILYBNILWY: 6/2010 W left: 2/2011 W back: 2/2012