Navy - I think that you handled that extremely well. Be prepared for more of that from her. Listen, listen, then validate and listen some more!

You want her to feel safe sharing her feelings with you. IMO, this is a good step in that direction.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce