I am doing well, but it only comes from crawling out of the pain my ML'er put me through. I thank God for that, but am ready to move on without drama, abuse and immaturity. Sometimes I think we make too many excuses for these ML'ers (including myself), they need to be accountable for their actions and stop using the people they love the most as their scapegoats. Yes, they still love us, I have no doubt in my mind. They are not capable of dealing with this emotion though.
The concert was wonderful. My girl was beautiful and sung her heart out. She was so proud that her mama was there. She kept blowing me kisses. I did not see ex or OW. I did not take the time to scan the audience to see if they were there like in the past. They are not worth that small fraction of energy.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
