The past can’t be changed. No one can go back and start a new beginning but anyone can start today and make a new ending. There is prob a lot she still needs to get off her chest and prob will for awhile, things she wanted to before and didn’t.
I think you handled it well but I would caution against having this play out over and over. At some point you will have to take some stock in your value system. At the end of the day you screwed up, OK. Well you still stuck around and fought like he!! To get where you are today.
Unless you are both in the same canoe paddling in the same direction you are bound to drift again. You both have to acknowledge mistakes and both be willing to find better ways to deal with them if they come up again. BOTH, not just Navy.
Again I emphasize that last night was good and she will need to unload some things, but eventually she will have to take some ownership.
Glad you remember the boomerang thing, I guess you did read my post to you way back when.
