FOBD, always good to hear from the BIT commander. I do have to just ride out the OM. I can't control her actions. He is only human and definitely has flaws. He WILL reveal them. My W knows mine and so do I. I have been working hard to change them and I think it is being noticed.....I hope.
Well here's what's been happening. W called sunday morning to talk to D2. After they talked, I kept the convo short. Found out that afternoon that a friend of ours, brother had died. I texted W to see if she knew. She said she did. I texted that I wish she had told. She said she was sorry she hadn't told me.
Had two showings on our house yesterday. W called me monday morning just wondering what time the showings were. I kept the convo very short. Didn't really feel like talking to her when all I could think about was how she was with OM all weekend.
After work I went straight to the gym. W called me and left a vm abot how her hours would be changing at work. I called back 2 hrs later. She told me that it was bc she had gotten a promotion. I'll admit she is a very hard worker who did deserve this. We had an upbeat convo. I congratulated her many times.
She called me later to tell me that D2 had used the potty. Pretty proud of that one. later that night I was practicing playing guitar, country you are my inspiration for this, and I decided to send her a text about her new job. Well it just went from there. We went back and forth about how nice the money will be and what a load off her mind it will be too.
This is when I decided to try to be a little more bold. Sent W a text saying "kinda like it that we've been talking more." She wrote back that she liked it too and that I was actually answering my phone. She stated "this has been a problem for 6 yrs." I admit she was right. I would always just leave it in my truck and get back to her when I felt like it. She got tired of trying to reach me. I think if she is bringing up something that was an issue in our R...she might still care??? Anyways, we went back and forth for a while and in the end wished each other a good night. I actually got some sleep that night too.
later that night I was practicing playing guitar, country you are my inspiration for this, and I decided to send her a text about her new job. Well it just went from there. We went back and forth about how nice the money will be and what a load off her mind it will be too. 