Rereading your thread here sparks14. One thing these boards have taught me I find helpful is to remember your WAW isn't in a good place and that makes her a liar. So, when she goes off and starts spewing garbage, just remember you can't believe ANYTHING she says, ever. Period. This one tip has helped me turn a bad sitch into an entertaining one. My WAW goes off about something and I just laugh in my head and say to myself, "liar!"

I dunno, but it helps me. It has really helped me with detachment. She can say whatever she wants, but she can no longer get to me. It is a place of peace and power I highly recommend for any LBS. It is actually making my DBing somewhat entertaining to me. Give it try.


"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
- Maria Robinson

M: 45 WAW: 36
T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9
ILYBNILWY: 6/2010
W left: 2/2011
W back: 2/2012