Irma, I do have compassion for you, much more than you realize. I'm terribly sorry that you didn't get what you wanted, unfortunately, it was not in your hands. All that I am trying to do is to get you to realize that you are much better a person than he is and you deserve much better than him, sorry you took it as uncompassionate. I'm also trying to help you with the pain by getting you to see that nothing is any different today than it was 4 years ago, except that you signed a piece of paper. He wasn't there then, he isn't there now. I'm trying to encourage you to see these things and move forward so you can find some piece and happiness, not grieving over something that has been gone for these years, Anyway, I hope this sheds a better light on what I was trying to accomplish.
