Another example was the type of conversations I'd have. Deep in his MLC, H hardly ever asked about me or my day or anything. Peripheral stuff perhaps, but nothing that a vague answer couldn't end. But again, once he started peeking out, he was showing genuine interest in me and D again (and the dog who he had mostly ignored). My usual vague answers weren't enough for him and he would continue to ask follow up questions to the point that I realized he ACTUALLY wanted to know (and wasn't just being polite). It was his ACTIONS that showed me what to believe.
Not to hijack, but OH MY WORD!!!! This is exactly my husband!!! I have seen him peek out of the fog by these same actions, as well as doing things when he is at the house to ensure my and D16 safety! The selfishness is CRAZY WICKED, but when you see these kinds of actions you know it is not selfish and genuine.
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
