InAPickle thank you for that wisdom. Easy to say very hard to do. Being in the same house is harder than not. W vacillates over and over never know what to expect but Im trying not to react to her MLC this is easily the hardest thing I have ever have to do
W confrontational today accuses me of telling kids inapropriate things about D. S11 is being brainwashed by her. Is FBing early this morning with a sh!t eating grin on her face makes me sick. Does anyone else have a issue with FB. Its seems to me that it is a BIG factor in her behavior and mindset. All those wonderful people egging her on and old BF from high school cozing up to her this seems like an insurmountable task with odds like that.
A couple who we are friends with went to D court yesterday and the H dropped the case right there. I am happy for them but also very jealous that they have beaten the odds and I am in limbo.
I'm right there with you man. Co-habitating with a cheating, MLC, lunatic. But I wont be the one to kick out my kid's mother. That's the decision I have made and... Yes it probably is the hardest thing I will ever have to do. I'm so much happier and at peace when she's not around.
I would steer clear of any D talk with the kids. They don't really want to hear it, 'cause it's not comforting. The only thing they should be sure of is that, mommy and daddy are "very sorry" about it, and none of it is the fault of or because of the kids.
You'd be surprised how many youngsters blame themselves for mommy and daddy splitting up.
Now.... Quit observing W on FB or anywhere else. It'll just make you miserable. Get on with your business and try and enjoy life. Let her go man.
If she's anything like my W, the lovely creature I married is GONE! DISAPPEARED, VANISHED, FENITO.
The headcase I'm living with now? I don't really want her.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
