Yeah I have tried and tried and I will do nothing going forward. I think it is the only way to proceed. I think what I did was drop the tools on her lap and walked away, now it is up to her to do the work.
I will tell you my biggest concern at this point is where I will be.
Say she calls me tomorrow or next month and want to try again.
Why?
Why would I? He!! I have come a long way and it has been some of the most painful days of my life. Still today I had a little bit of a setback at what point do I begin to built resentment and anger? I let her go with love. Now maybe it is time for her to let me go the same way. I feel like she is holding a carrot over me with this hope thing only difference is I am no longer taking the carrot. I am just simply walking away.
