You have always been truthful ,honest and blunt I have said that many times.....but B/H I am in mourning of my marriage.I feel as when my husband first left...I feel like I have lost my marriage to death....and I have to live my life w/o him.....is that bad to have those feelings.I think not, I think it is part of my healing process.....just some hugs would be nice at this time....some, I am sorry you are in this place in your life....why always just so blunt??? I know I have to live my life w/o him, he is marrying the o/w. But just some compassion,even if for just one post..... It took him a long time to file, I wish he would have right away, but it doesnt lessen the pain whether it was 4mo ago or 4 yrs. Just hurts like hell......and as far as standing that is up to me...when I feel like I dont need to further stand that will be my decision.....when I feel God says I no longer need to stand.then I will stop..... We all have different decisions to make where that is concerned You dont have to keep telling me that is is useless. for I serve a mighty and powerful God that still works miracles to this day... We are all different just some TLC from you would be nice....that's all I am saying. My marriage is dead.....and it hurts and I have to take time to mourn it....