Well, you have tried and tried. So now it's time to try what feels like nothing.
Back off. Focus on yourself. Give both of you space to heal.
I am actually a CPT as of about 3 weeks ago. But still, the travel has been ridiculous. I blew through all 30 days of my military leave already and have to wait for July 1st for my leave to reset. So, if he tries to dump anymore on me, that'll be my answer, sorry I don't have any more leave until July 1st.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2