Dbmod- I have read the book, but not for some time. I know I get more out of books like that if I read them twice and I plan on revisiting it.

I did not know that there was a site specifically for SSW, so I will certainly check that out. Thanks for cluing me in!

We have not gotten help together at this point, but he is open to it. Slightly negative on it, but open. Whats holding me back at the moment is our financial situation. I've thought about the telephone counselors on this site since I do think they are reasonably priced, but talking to people on here was my first step.

Other than getting his testosterone checked out in college, he has not made any other effort with a doctor. He is not on any medication, so I know that is not effecting him negatively.

Thanks for the suggestions!