Just a little update:

About 4 weeks ago me and my father and brothers ran into ex and OW at a restaurant. Can you say ackward. Both ex and OW looked so unhappy and pre-occupied. Ex was suppose to have had the kids that night. I went up to them and nicely asked where the children were. He told me to get away from them and called me a --itch and told me he was going to "kick my ass". It was so very odd and ex seemed to want a confrontation.

Since that time, he has been texting me on and off as if nothing happened. I have not replied to any. He is a child.

Today, included in my child support payment was a "bonus" of several thosand dollars from him. I am clueless why, or what inspired this additional payment. Maybe guilt, repentence, who the hell knows.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11