How should an anniversary be handled?

[StaciG]

I have been fighting with this same situation. Have my 1 yr anniv on 4/23 plus it is also my H birthday. He is the WAH and have been gone for about a month with no contact from him. I am thinking I will probably just recieve papers in the mail anyday. I was at the mad stage for awhile then the closer to time it gets here I'm like I'm not a mean person maybe I should just send a card so he knows I'm thinking about him, but with the way I have been treated by him, I have friends tell me that if I do or send him anything...IM STUPID, he doesnt deserve it! So I wont be doing anything, cause i cant let myself be in that situation, its not good for me. Use your own judgement Paper and good luck with whatever you decide.