kind of have the same problem in my marriage. the phyical attraction was great in the beginning but kind of got to where it just dies down. This would be my fault. My H works 2nd shifts and I have a day job. Im home alseep, tired when he would come home. My H does bodybuilding and gets down to zero body fat...I dont find that attractive when he gets that thin. Also I wasnt raised in a very affection home like he was..not use to all the PDA. Has caused problems and then when someone is on you constintly about no affection, that doesnt really make you want to be in the mood either. Hang in there Cal, it almost sounds like you two are best friends just living together which is good & bad, you need to find that passion. "I don't melt, get weak in the knees and he's not necessarily my type but he's not unattractive either." This comment does concern me...keep up with your counseling even if its just for yourself to help you with answers.
W 37 H 34 No Children Married 04/23/2010 Together Since 11/2009 Seperated 03/10/2011 Not Yet Filed/Kind of expecting them anyday.
