2blu if your wife wants a divorce, the harder you try to delay the inevitable, the worse it might get for you.

I am in the same boat now. Right now i have completely given up on stopping that train. What i can hope and do is better myself in every way so that i lead a decent life. If wife sees that and wants to come back into my life, my door is open. As all the pros here say, you have to improve yourself for 'you'. Not for your 'wife'. I know it is harder said than done. But try to be on that path and you will have less heartaches.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...