Still very much pro marriage. I have invested a lot of time working through all of these issues and am finally able to say(most of the time) my ex is really crazy because I am a great catch! lol

I think the divorce rates for 2nd marriages are higher because people fail to take responsibility for their contributions to the failing of the first marriage...even if their spouse cheated. They don't wait until they are on solid ground before they leap into the next relationship because they want to feel better. They want the pain to stop now, so they blindly rush into marriage and most of the time a second divorce. Slow down people, why would you ever want to offer anyone anything but your best?

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory