The big punch

[Redo]

Hi All:

New thread as the old one is locked.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2147091&page=1

Sorry I dropped off the grid for 4 days now. Was down with fever and bad allergies.

I think the title seems appropriate. I just got in the draft decree papers. I am taking my time going through them and making sure i am protecting myself. Wife was lil sad on the day the papers arrived. But now she seems quite okay. The final signing of the decree papers might come soon.

I called my daughter yesterday to talk. I has been 4 days since i talked to her. Wife knew that i was sick. She talked to me for about 5 mins after i talked to daughter, telling me about her, stuff happening at daughter's kindergarten, etc. But not once did she ask as to how i was doing. I was having a hard time talking because i kept coughing. But wife just kept on going talking about what she wanted to talk.

I have not seen this insensitive side of her. I developed high BP after daughter was born. From the time wife has filed for D, not once has she asked me about my health, and how i was. I make it a point to ask her quite frequently as to how she's doing. I wonder if she is doing this just not to give me false hope of reconciliation...

Hurts knowing that the woman you love/loved does not even care.