Interesting question Paper. My 14 year anniversary is next Tuesday.
My sitch is different in that my W currently lives 1100 miles away. I don't plan on saying or doing anything. She wants a D, so I figure what's the point. My W will be receiving the response to her dissolution petition about that time. I'm not trying to be vindictive, it just happens to be how the timing worked out.
Here are some questions to think about:
Do you have any expectations if you decide to do something?
What are you hoping to accomplish?
Will you be disappointed if she says she doesn't want to do anything?
To me it would be putting pressure on her and putting her in an uncomfortable situation.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
