So hard to detatch,dont really know what that means,i need examples feels like its getting close to the end, overwhelmed by despair most of the time but I dont show it to her.
Simple version:
Detachment is the process of having your emotions be less and less triggered or influenced by your spouse, especially sadness and anger.
It only comes with time, and you have to have the mental will to believe you can move on and be happy without her.
If you cannot open yourself to multiple possible future scenarios for your life, you'll find yourself "stuck" and terminally, emotionally "dependent" on the other person.
Got to get past that now. It's not attractive.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
