Except now, she's being way too nice. Giving me what I want. Being very friendly. Reaching out waaaaay too much.
Most of the time you're never going to know why she flip flops. Do your best to keep your focus on you and what you need to do given the current situation. Manipulation is really common, they will act a number of different ways to keep you close.
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yesterday didn't even look her in the face when we were talking. She kept making small talk but I cut it off and simply walked away.
I'm all for boundaries and taking a strong stance when called for. Where you're at right now, it's important for you not to let your guard down at the first sign of her being nice, however not looking her in the eye? Why not? Be strong and respectful.
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Then today... she kept texting me with random things. Some kid related some finance related but overall just crap. She then told me to get on FB chat! - now if you remember the issues, she was doing that with the OM!!! OH, and we aren't friends anymore so she can't do that!
Uh huh....This is the type of stuff you ignore.
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I think I know the answer already but, this is normal, right? My correct plan is to simply ignore and move on with my life. Something I'm trying to do but she is trying to not let me.
Haha! You said normal....yeah, this is common and yes keep moving ahead with what you need to do but also keep yourself in check as far as your actions being in line with your goals.
And look her in the eye when you speak to her, be strong and respectful without the edge or pissy-ness.
