well, things are as they have been but I must admit, I am starting to see sprinkles of my effective DB'ing. She is starting to start the conversations now and starting to say things like "i never said divorce" and "i am not asking for a divorce". I have stopping bringing up our issues and now she is starting to. As time draws closer. I am totally sticking to my guns now. Maybe this does work for me.

SANDI2, you have been my rock and I definately owe you drinks or dinner or both!


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out