Crazy weekend. W out for party with family on Friday and stayed home with the girls. I went to bed before she got home as I was tired.
She woke me up in the middle of night to have sex. I was honestly not sure about it, as I was the pursuer when we last had sex at Christmas. This time it was all her - so I went with it. Then we did it again. We haven't done that in years. We finally get to sleep. She then wakes me up again just before it's time to get up and we have sex again.
The next day there is no talk of it, she's tired and hungover (and I'm wornout too!) We get talking about the house again, and find out that due to bad weather, W isn't going to go see the house until Sunday. My parents come to pick up D5 and D7 for a sleepover and W goes to work on Saturday night and I'm home with the D2. No interaction with W when my parents came over, she was laying down for a nap. I'm glad when they are gone without incident.
Sunday I wanted to goto the gym but the timing didn't workout. W goes with her M to go see this place. When they get home she's both excited and disappointed. The place needs some TLC, but it gets overall good reviews. But - it turns outs they've decided they want another 100 thousand dollars more for it which puts it out of our price range. We are going to talk to the bank, and talk to this lady about lowering the price - but I don't see how it will workout.
I drive my W to work so I can pick up the girls, and as I'm dropping her off (as I used to do years ago) I decide to lean over for a kiss goodbye - and nothing, she says bye and walks away. I don't understand, we talked about this property all weekend, had sex and just spent time together and there's nothing.
Now what? I'm feeling ok about it, because she's said a number of times she isn't going anywhere but at same time I don't want just a friend to live with and take care of the kids.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
