For arguments sake, lets assume the 2 people (me wife and I) are generally estranged living in the same house. We are cordial, but very little talking, and not much family together activities. 2 young kids. She has had an EA which I am unsure of the status. I am in LRT phase, and she is very convinced she is done and ready to move on. We do sleep in same bed, but it is a cold bed. No kisses, no saying goodnight, no hugs.
Yes I had another thread but no one was reading it and I really am looking for some opinions on this specific topic.
My wife is the kind of woman who will rarely if ever take the first step. If I say nothing about it, it will pass unsaid, which will feel like a further nail in the coffin. However if I invite her to dinner, and get the babysitter, she is likely to come and we would have a nice time. Really on the fence with this. On one hand, according to LRT, I do and say nothing. However I think me "forgetting" our anniversary as further reason why she should be done (never ever done that before, always remembered all). I don't want it to go forgotten either. I was thinking maybe to say happy anniversary in the morning, and see where that goes as to what we might do.
