Punchy Good for changing your approach and standing up for yourself. Just be careful of how the confrontation goes. WAW's are experts at turning OM confrontations on you. She will most likely accuse you of not trusting her, snooping, attempting to control her, and not caring about her needs. (All which are probably true at some level). A good confrontation can end the EA, a bad one will put them together on the same team against you. I'd recommend getting some advice before doing it so you don't do more harm than good. Maintaining your self respect is one of the DB goals, just make sure you go about dealing with OM the right way. Not saying to back down, just outsmart OM.
