Man FOBD, you have a way with words. Your posts seem to always choke me up. You are handling this as well as anyone could be expected. Be proud of yourself and stand tall. The future is unwritten, anything is possible.

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This is not a f*cking joke, THIS IS A DIVORCE. It is time to put on the "big boy pants" and realize that you are willfully destroying a marriage that you once claimed you would honor until death do us part.


This really hit me. I do not believe my W had said the "D" word once until the other day. We were talking about insurance, and she finally said it. However, she said it talking about how mad she was that the insurance company made her say what was going on. It really seems like she wants to ignore what is really going on.

Anyways, I went off track....

I would love to hear you post some of your goals now.

What is next for FOBD?
Anything you haven't done yet that you always wanted to?
A part of the world you always wanted to see?
Is there a part of you you're still working on? How could you improve?

The futures we can create for ourselves..... Unlimited.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.