Iw,
Good to hear the positive tones in your posts. I very happy to see that you are doing well. As always, let the OM stuff takes it course. She will either get tired of it or not. But, you can't control or fix that. OM may have crept into my sitch, but I am doing what I can to not let it bother me. Yes, I have also suffered with jealousy of other couples lately. It is hard to see them together and happy. I have been pulling my buddies aside and telling them to be better husbands. Funny, they listen to me pretty intently now that I am where I am. I put the fear of God in them with my advice.

Hang in there, buddy!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...