Am I on the right track?

[NEmoose43]

DG, thanks for your post. I've read a bit of your sitch and I feel like you and I are on the same kind of track right now. My W has said she has considered the D, but then she'll come right back and say things about what "we" are going to do during the summer. Mixed messages make it so hard to detach and not try to push when you get those positives.

And I've thought a lot about the actions, not words idea...something that I realized the other day is that sometimes doing nothing at all is still taking action. That was a tough lesson, but just backing off and letting things be seems to be the only choice we have sometimes.

Wishing you the best of luck as well.