Islander, when she reaches out to you, remember these are your chances to really DB.

I would suggest staying away from "no plans". I'm not suggesting you lie, but you can make it vague. "this and that" or something.

And stay upbeat!

This is a chance to show her how well you're doing! Even if it is fake it until you make it.

About the surf board. Maybe you are thinking about using it. With a "friend" perhaps? Again don't lie. But have you thought about it?

Just some thoughts.

Remember, she is paying closer attention then you think.

Hang in there man. Be strong!

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.