At some point you need to be clear with yourself, and also with her, about what life after D might look like. Would you still do all these things for her? Would you be able to be friends with her the way you are now? Everyone answers the questions a little differently, I could not be (but that was also because he wanted to be friends while he was still with OW which I just could not handle).
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2