Iron man , I have been following your sitch for some time but just have responded as I feel overwhelmed by My sitch and the ones that I have been with for awhile.
I know how you feel about it being sad. The worse thing in my heart is that it is all so pointless and that I do believe that they will wake up some day but by that time there will have been sooooo much damage done and putting it back together although not impossible , will be very difficult with no guarantees.
You are allowed to be sad sometimes when the finality hits but try not and dwell on it.
The part that overwhelms and makes me feel so helpless is not sharing in my sons life all the time now. The grow up so fast an now I can only experience half of it.
Out of my control. Happy you appear to be bouncing back.
All the best
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