WAW tearing up our family part II

[angel61]

Also, her going to counciling seemed to re-enforce that she shouldn't be married. That she had to live on her own two feet.

So, I'd say basically all of the therapy her and US went to actually was working against the marriage.

I've read about that. My one experience with a psychiatrist was the same - he basically told me that my H was abusive.
MLC can make people abusive, thats true, but if you know how the person was in the first place then you know somewhere in there is a good man/woman.

My gut feel for my sitch is not to go.

Perhaps retrouvaille, yes, I would like that.