I suspect she has some guilt over not spending time with the
...or some guilt about the wedding. Listen boom, hope for the best but prepare for the worst. I'd bet the farm that this has gone further than she has let on.
Originally Posted By: bboom
When I look at W now, sometimes I see the person I married (the one I love) and sometimes I see someone I don't want to be with. It seems that the more I detach and GAL the less I want to be with her and the less I care about her and her WAW actions. Is this normal? If I do really good at detaching and GAL will I reach the point where I don't want her back? After all, she has broken my heart many times and I may reach the point where she no longer deserves me
This should be your goal. You need to know that you have options even if your situation ends in divorce. You need to find it in yourself to KNOW that you will be OK with or without her.
I think you should also start doing some GALing by yourself. Remind yourself what life is all about and that you deserve better than the way your W is treating you. I'm not saying to go out and date but a conversation with an attractive female will go a long way to remind you that you have a lot to offer.
