Bboom I've been lurking your thread and I myself am well aware that the fog goes both ways sometimes. What makes us different from our WAW is that we can recognize it. Enjoy the good times and think about good things when the sitch goes sour. Don't let the fog rewrite your past. I believe WAW act the way they do to make pulling the band-aid of the divorce easier. Once they stop being WAW most of the ugly traits should go away. At least that's what I tell myself