Yet when it's something that I'm going through, there's no indication that I was even a consideration... meh... no matter, just thoughts...
Those are your assumptions....
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
I will have no expectations of what W gets from the seminar. Things might be no different at the end of the day. But I do hope... that she gets good value out of the seminar.
No expectations ? Really ?
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
I don't want to sound conceited, but maybe W will begin to understand how she controlled parenting (and our M) from day one.
Kaffe....
Maybe you can see how YOU were controlling , and are still trying to control this....
She has been pretty clear what her expectations of you (as a parent) are.
It is up to YOU to be a parent..
It seems she took over parenting, because you chose not to.
And now, you come in riding a white horse, trying to tell HER how to parent your children ?
I would be pissed too...
Your email that you sent....read it again, and then read Starsky's version. Then think about the differences between them.
Once again Kaffe.....I ask you...
What is your focus ?
What are your goals ?
Unclear goals , and unclear focus lead to unclear, inconsistent actions...