I could have been more assertive and I could have also used it to discuss my misgivings about flow over at the house, after parties or during parties at the house.
But those assertions will be for later communication. For now, between the seminar today and my email, she'll have lots to digest and think about.
Your lack of concern for your kids, and your total passivity and unwillingness to do anything about it, is, quite simply, alarming.