empowerment over, just had H pack his bags

[canadianMrs.]

BeingMe, you were so right. One day I would see the man who wants to change back and another the MLC'er. I have to detach. When found out about OW I also found out that they had planned a trip to Las Vegas, for this week. Since "ending it", H swore up and down the trip was off too. Well, yesterday was the day he would have left, and he is now MIL. No calls to the kids, not returning their calls etc. His parents can't reach him. He has a work cell and he can't use it on trips because of the roaming fees billed to his employers...so I think he lied to everyone once again. I know I have to detach but how do you protect your children. D10 is not doing well with all of these ups and downs. It is heartbreaking to see what he is doing to them.