Had a strange dream last night. I got a grey steel or pewter ring for my wedding finger.
I havn't been wearing my gold wedding ring since W filed for D, because W had it engraved on the inside, "Forever yours, W", right before we were married. I felt like it was wearing a lie.
Now as you Catholics know, unless I get an anullment, I'll always be married in the eyes of God and the Church (Matt 5:31-32). A couple of weeks ago a close friend of mine told me I should wear a wedding band, any wedding band, simply to attest to my faith and not send the wrong message to my children, the community and tempting single women out there.
Honestly, I am starving for some pleasant female company, but I wonder if God is telling me, to wear a ring.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
