I agree with the do things for you not her. That seems to be working in my sitch. My H & I are still living together and getting along. He is participating more in our lives with the household chores and children more than he has in years. Still has OW mind you. But I'm am seeing small positive changes. It is definitely a fog.
T: 28 years M: 23 years D19 S15 OW Discovery: 3/6/11
