I can tell you that you can talk to him about the OW until you are blue in the face and it will not make the least bit of difference. All he will hear if you start giving him reasons that he is WRONG is that you are trying to tell him how to feel and believe me...that is NOT going to work.
I'm with DG! Work on GAL and your 180s...it's the best chance you have for YOU and your R. Unfortunately, we cannot make them see that their choice is wrong through words, it has to be through actions. Remember that it takes 21 days to form a habit (I think I read this somewhere on this forum)...so make today DAY 1 =)
Keep posting and others will be along to help you out. Maybe make this your journal so that you can get all of your emotions out!!! Keep looking forward and everything will be Great...one way or another =)
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
