I've given a little thought to what I might do if something similar happened to me (the chances of which seem little to none right now). I think I would be inclined to say that we could talk about H coming home, but not until all contact with any OW has stopped. While H works on that, I think I would start seeing a counselor to help me decide if I really wanted to R, and if so, what boundaries I can and should set.
Whatever you do, do it thoughtfully, purposely, and slowly. Give yourself plenty of time to think this through. There is no need to rush to a decision, especially if H is not done yet. Things could still turn on a dime. And remember -- no expectations.
(((CW)))
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
