Caramel corn anyone?

[courageous wife]

I have had the shock of my life today...I need words of wisdom!

My H asked me today if I would let him come home.

I started to type out all the gory details of our conversation but decided to put down the basics for now as I am going to need advice as soon as possible!

-He's been thinking about this for awhile
-Wanted to talk to me after our settlement meeting but I didn't come out right away
-He has been coming in and lingering when he drops off the kids to get a feel for where I am at
-He said he misses the kids, me, grandkids etc
-He doesn't want me and the kids to have to sell the house and move
-He said he has made mistakes and knows that he is going to have to make it right with everyone including God
-From some of the things he said, I thinks some of why he wants to come home is money related
-I don't think he has hit rock bottom yet
-He said he is not happy
-H will need a few days to get things in order "there" (OW's)
-He said is will do whatever it takes, counseling, talking with the priest etc.
-He said he is going to call his L tomorrow and try to put the D on hold (our court date is this Friday)

There is so much more but this is the gist of it!

I have one DB coaching session and I am going to try to talk with her tomorrow...guess there is a reason I have not used it all this time!


Is it crazy to say I have dreamed of this day and now that it is here I am not excited about it? This was the last thing I expected to happen today...I really had gotten to the point of accepting that a D was happening...