Considering all that has happened, W and I not speaking at all is probably a good thing... Gives her time to think. I've read that it can take months even years before WAS sees clearly. I am GAL, with full intention to move on and not look back. I wonder at what point I will close the door on her and never turn back even if she has a change of heart. I have great respect for anyone on here, who has been subjected to such a traumatic occurrence, and despite years of same ole same ole, hang in there and are victorious. My concern is being one of many, who have repeat occurrence despite their best efforts... I struggle with the idea of risking a repeat or just investing my efforts with OW.
