"Done"... WAW? MLC? Just relationship trouble?

[Hurt-but-Hopeful]

Hoswald, I can relate to you on many levels. My H & I still live together, get along great, never really had any big arguments, but he feels emotionally disconnected and numb. If he knew things could really be great, he'd be willing to say but there are "no guarantees". I don't know which way to turn either. Keep GAL & doing things for yourself. One thing I have seen repeated here is to do those things for YOU & not for her.