He's not gone yet but says his feelings are gone

[Hurt-but-Hopeful]

DG, thanks so much for your reply. I hope you are seeing some positives in your sitch, too. I'm trying to catch up with the board.

I am trying really hard to focus on "my stuff" right now and what I need to do to take care of me. It's just so hard to be around him sometimes when he acts cold. Not uncaring, but no affection whatsoever. I try not to let it show that it bothers me. I just wonder when he's going to pull his head out of his rear and figure out we have a lot worth saving!

I'm still working on reading DB. Haven't made it all the way through yet.