W returned from wedding reception around 3 AM. I didn't ask anything other than "how are you?" W started giving me a brief overview of the night: "reception ended at 10, some of us stayed at the bar for a few hours, then we helped transport the wedding gifts to the newlyweds house, then about 8 of us hung out there for a while". I really wanted to ask if OM was among the group of 8, did she have a few slow dances with him, etc. but I kept my mouth shut and went back to sleep.
W was out the door this morning at 7 for class.

The wedding she attended was a second marriage for both the bride and groom (her childhood friend). I'm sure it was a nice example to both my W and OM that there is a chance to find love and happiness with someone new after a divorce. I know I shouldn't think it, but last night probably brought them closer, and it seems that the closer she gets to him the more she detaches from me.


Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.