I'm not sure what an affair does to those "good enough" feelings. In my case, it appears as if STBXW just didn't want to be married to me. It doesn't appear as if she picked anyone else. She picked alone over me -- and that hurts, too.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
